In short, I knew better, but forgot the concept of moderation. Scientists are always saying this or that is bad for you and then coming back and finding some study that contradicts their first condemnation and sometimes reverses it. Let us examine one of my favorite vices: alcohol. You can't drink a beer from a can or bottle that doesn't tell you to stop if you are pregnant. Not being pregnant, I usually ignore this and go to step two, drinking away. Now science says not only is drinking a brew OK, but two drinks a day is considered therapeutic. Yes!
In fact, even the alcohol ban during pregnancy is being challenged by some scientists, as reported in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health. They've found that women who have a glass or two of wine a week during pregnancy have no ill effects ... The wonders of moderation.
My point is, vices and virtues that are taken to extremes are bad. You can get too much of a good thing, from vitamins to exercise, and some things thought bad can be good for us. If an occasional cigar brings you peace and relaxation, go for it. George Burns lived to be 100 smoking eight cigars a day, but then I think that’s pushing it.
Finally, I know you are wondering what exactly a moderate amount of anything is and does it change as we grow older, or illness intervenes, or pregnancy occurs? Some answers come from science, and a lot of answers come from your own perceptions. Tequila teaches you about moderation very quickly, and much of what’s deemed moderation at the age of 25 will be reevaluated as excess at 45. But I do believe if you follow that Greek truth your 45 will be a whole lot better than most others'.
Dave Smith is the creator of "Buck Savage" and a retired law enforcement officer from Arizona. Currently, he is the lead instructor for Calibre Press' Street Survival seminar.