Perhaps this accounts for the rise of romantic sobriquets like the Texas Rangers' "one ranger, one riot." Unfortunately, such rhetoric fosters mythic notions that, in turn, create unrealistic expectations that cops have of themselves and other officers. Small wonder that when it comes to such peer pressure, cops could do worse than adhere to the "Just Say No" rhetoric of their DARE peers.
Unfortunately, many don't. Life coach Linda Maglionico cites a peculiar belief at the root of many a problem: People will think I'm weak if I ask for help. "In the U.S., we glorify self-made people," notes Maglionico. "You never hear about people who asked for assistance while pulling themselves up by their bootstraps to achieve the American Dream. As such, we view accepting help as a sign of weakness, especially for those who believe that seeking help undermines our sense of independence, abilities, and ability to cope."
Combine that with societal expectations of cops and you have an even bigger problem.
"Not only are you supposed to be superhuman if you're an officer," says John Violanti, a research professor of social and preventive medicine at the University of Buffalo School of Public Health and Health Professions, "but you fear asking for help."
That fear may prove ironic, prompting undue initiative that will not immunize the officer from harm, or the judgments of others.