Civil discovery. Both sides to a civil suit begin by conducting "discovery." For you, this will mean answering interrogatories and requests for admissions and submitting to depositions. Your attorney will advise and assist you with these steps.
Motion for summary judgment. Once discovery is complete, your attorney may decide to file a motion for summary judgment, arguing that based on the discovery from both sides, there is no triable issue of fact for a jury, and the suit should be dismissed. A common ground for summary judgment is that you should be entitled to "qualified immunity." This is simply an assertion that your use of force was not unconstitutional, or if it was, the law was not clearly established that in the circumstances you confronted, deadly force would violate the Fourth Amendment.
Appeal of adverse rulings. The ruling of a federal district court denying your motion for summary judgment on grounds of qualified immunity can be appealed to the federal court of appeals for your circuit. An appeal stays other proceedings in the case. A three-judge panel of appellate judges decides your appeal on the basis of the lower-court record and the briefs and arguments of the parties. If you lose, you may seek "en banc" review by a larger panel of judges in your circuit. If you still do not prevail, you may petition the U.S. Supreme Court to "grant certiorari" to review your case. Both en banc review and certiorari are discretionary with the courts and are not granted in most cases.
Trial and appeal. Unless your case is dismissed on summary judgment or at other stages or is settled by agreement between the parties, you will proceed to trial in federal district court. If you lose at trial, your attorney can sometimes identify errors made by the trial judge that provide grounds for appeal. Success on appeal will return the case to district court for retrial.
As you can see, many layers of supervisors, lawyers, and judges may spend many years dissecting your split-second decision to use deadly force before they reach final decisions on administrative punishment, civil liability, or criminal prosecution. All this time, you'll be living with the pressures and uncertainties of their second-guessing hanging over your head. These worries can distract you in your daily work, burden your private life, and lead to the loss of your career, attachment of your assets, or even prison.