This familiarity only bred contempt. This close relationship fueled the bitter gang rivalry and even though some of their homes had backyards that adjoined their rival's backyards, firefights often broke out on the public streets when gang members recognized each other. These former grammar school classmates stepped up the violence by one-upping one brutal murder with another. Neither gang would back down.
The local parish priest found himself burying these young men from both sides. He watched families torn apart by the death, or by the trial and prison sentence dished out to the gang shooters. Finally, the parish priest organized a meeting of the parents from these two gang areas in an effort to educate and activate the ELA families.
Most of those who attended were as puzzled and frustrated by the actions of these gang members as the priest and police. Most of those who responded were Latina women who were immersed in the Latino gang culture. Most of them were mothers, who had difficulty understanding their own at-risk children. They might have been uncomfortable with the way their young men dressed, drank or hung out, but none of them wanted to think that their sons could be part of the gang madness. It must be the sons of the mothers from the other neighborhood, they imagined.
Over the next few weeks, the group adopted the working name, "The Concerned Mothers of East Los Angeles." The good priest facilitated an awakening of the group to the hard facts. They talked about who should be responsible. And as ugly as it might seem, they actually had to actively do something about the problem of violence.
These brave women became close friends. They began calling each other on the telephone and warning others of suspicious gang-like activity. Whenever one of them heard rumors of a possible gang drive-by in one of the neighborhoods, mothers from both the victim and the suspect gangs would form "prayer chains." Before the shooting could occur and for hours into the night, the concerned mothers would slowly walk in single file around the targeted neighborhoods reciting the Rosary or some other group prayers.