It can also look like stalking if not put in the proper context. It is important to view the behavior from the victim's perspective. Behaviors that seem benign to an outsider might be terrifying to a victim.
"One thing to look at is has the victim or target attempted to set a boundary that this person continues to ignore?" Garcia explains. "Has the person been told by the target, a friend, police officer, HR, RA, etc. that the stalking behavior is not OK?"
Generally, a verbal and/or written warning can be issued to the offender. Another option is an order of protection. That said, Garcia warns, "With stalkers, we know there is a really high recidivism rate. Over 60% will reengage in the stalking behavior after an intervention and after they have been arrested or served with an order of protection."
Identifying stalking, however, can be challenging, particularly for victims who often minimize the problem.
"If you think about any of those behaviors that are typical of stalking cases - the phone calls, showing up to places, the texts, the E-mails - many of those behaviors in and of themselves are not criminal behaviors," says Garcia.