Next, the importance of individual ownership is vital for leaders to instill in their officers. After adopting the "three-foot worldview" and realizing that many things are outside of their control, officers can then begin to "own" what is rightly theirs to exercise responsibility over. Once the negative, anti-police distractions of mass media are removed, officers are then free to evolve and refine their craft. Complete mental attention can then be paid to honing the professional police trade, to repeatedly sanding the edges of our calling, and to making good officers even better.
Leaders should push their officers to take full responsibility for anything that comes across their path, to examine the various challenges, and exercise creativity in overcoming such obstacles in moving toward solutions. The potency of each and every officer truly owning the good and the bad that will invariably come their way each work day, and then proactively working toward solutions, cannot be understated. It is powerful when officers are reinvigorated with the energy and potency that comes along with owning their trade. With this perspective, even the frustrating difficulties that arise can be seen through the lens of opportunity for change, or flexibility, or self-improvement. Satisfactory officers can then become extraordinary, and excellent officers can evolve even further along the professional scale.
Making Connections
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, in knitting these concepts together are the individual, professional connections that can then be fostered between officers and the public. In recent years, many young officers have shrunk back from personal, on-the-street conversations with the citizens as we often falsely attribute the online anti-police rubbish to the majority of citizens. It can become a precarious mental trap for officers to begin to pigeon-hole and project onto all citizens the same irrational, vile emotions of a small online minority of police detesters. It is an equally destructive mistake for officers to stereotype all of the public as "cop haters" as it is for citizens to stereotype all officers as "racist murderers."
Young officers are often overcome with disbelief when, in a public setting, they receive dozens of "thank you" wishes and other "atta-boys" from the underrepresented majority. The key to these quality interactions is the officers must be out and among their citizenry. Even among large, emotionally charged protests, I have personally experienced numerous sincere, honest, fulfilling conversations with protestors and demonstrators, only yards away from the mass demonstration, as people are all alike in wanting to be heard and spoken to. These types of one-on-one human interactions serve to break down the dual threat of negative projection and stereotyping, both for officers and for the public.