Nonetheless, the police response can be extremely important. Police can make or break the situation by their behavior and attitude, O'Shea said. Even if officers do not make an arrest, they can let both parties know they take domestic violence seriously. Since police are seen as authority figures, their attitude communicates a strong message to the abuser.
Police also can let the victim know she can always call them again. Although law enforcement agencies typically measure their effectiveness by not having to respond to the same homes again and again, "It's probably a success if you got back to the house over and over again," she said, because at least the victim who repeatedly reports domestic violence knows how to get help.
Responding to repeated domestic violence calls from the same couple often frustrates the police. "It's OK to be frustrated," O'Shea commented. But police should avoid communicating that frustration to the victim.
Officers should also focus on the investigation of the crime, she said, since it demonstrates that they're not just acting as mediators.
The police shouldn't be expected to act as social workers either. That's not their job. "We understand the police can only do so much in their job," Majors said. But referring victims to crisis counselors and shelters is vital. Even if the victim says she doesn't want the information, police should leave her a card with information about where she can get help. A victim may decide to call for help several months after the police respond to her house. "You're rarely going to see the impact you've had," O'Shea said.