POLICE Logo
MenuMENU
SearchSEARCH

Fear of Failure

If there ever was a true fear of young officers, I think I know it. No, it is not the gun-wielding psychopath. Nor is it your patrol car spinning out of control over a cliff. Deep down, it is the fear of failure.

If there ever was a true fear of young officers, I think I know it. No, it is not the gun-wielding psychopath. Nor is it your patrol car spinning out of control over a cliff. Deep down, it is the fear of failure.

In the academy it could be a failed test or a "no go" during a practical exercise. During the FTO phase, it could be low scores or remedial training. Whatever the case, the truth is, failure doesn't mean the end of the world. In fact, it can make you a better cop.

Ad Loading...

Put the failure in perspective.If you fail a written test and have to take it over, take the lumps first.

The academy director will counsel you and your department will bark at you. You go back, study hard, and pass it. Put it behind you and do not make that mistake again. So you won't graduate with top academic honors; oh well. You wanted the job, not class rank. Drive on.

If the issue is a performance exercise, again, stop and rethink. Some tasks you are now learning are totally different from anything you have ever done in life. Just a brief practice may not cut it. You may have to get assistance or remedial training. So if you want the job then put some sweat equity into it. I knew a recruit who failed on his midterm physical fitness testing. He had amassed top-notch academics but needed some more time on the weekends and afternoons on the track. It can be done if you're willing to put in the time and effort.

Failure before your classmates and your supporters is reality. You must also learn how to handle failure in life; this is a life lesson. There will be a time in your future when you get outrun by a suspect, you lose a traffic case, or your buddy has better firearms scores. This is life; we do not win at every conquest.

What's important is not that you failed but how you handle the failure. How do you get up and dust yourself off? Do you get back in the game?

The entire recruit process is a preparation for your career. It is a long race, so do not burn yourself out on the first lap. A police career is like designing and building a building. What you bring to the job is your family upbringing, education, life experience, and your inner drive. This starts a good foundation. Your academy training and FTO process make the foundation and structure for the building. If you have ever watched a craftsman build, you know that sometimes they miss a nail or bend it, but, they drive on.

You've probably heard that in woodworking, you measure twice and cut once. This is true of police work as well. You prepare with training and make proper decisions but when you act it will be accurate. Of course, Journeyman carpenters have made errors in their training; so do young officers in the FTO program. Get over it and deal with it.

Failure can be a valuable learning process. Here's a sports analogy. You would never improve as an athlete if you always competed with others who had lesser skills than you. So you win every game, but who is your competition? If you do not compete against those who are better than you, your skills will never be maximized.

This is like the young officer who only wants to do enough to get by or is "good enough for government work." You are not pushing yourself. To get stronger, you must lift heavier weights. That will mean some days you lose and some days you are sore. Police work is no different.

Don't expect to never fail. You will at one time or another. You will be passed over for a promotion or a transfer. You'll make a mistake on the job. It is going to happen. Don't let it keep you from your goals.

I measure my resolve by how I cope with adversity. For me that is the true measure of greatness.

Train to hard, train to win!

Ad Loading...
Subscribe to Our Newsletter

More Blogposts

Inside the Badge by Wayne ParhamJuly 19, 2024

Preventing Heat Injury in Police K-9s

In the relentless heat of summer and even early fall in some parts of the country, officers face the important task of protecting their K-9 partners while working in sweltering temperatures. Recognizing changes in a dog’s behavior is the key.

Read More →
Inside the Badge by StaffDecember 19, 2023

Why Your Agency Needs to Attend the ILEETA Conference

ILEETA is a complete resource for trainers to address trainers' needs. Its mission is to enhance the skills and safety of criminal justice practitioners while fostering stronger and safer communities.

Read More →
Inside the Badge by David GriffithNovember 28, 2023

IACP 2023: New Training Products

Technologies for improving law enforcement training and training management were some of the highlights at this year's show.

Read More →
Ad Loading...
Inside the Badge by Wayne ParhamOctober 27, 2023

Initial Results Released from MSP 2024 Police Vehicle Testing

The 2024 pursuit-rated vehicles--all pickup trucks or SUVs, including two battery electric models the Chevrolet Blazer EV AWD and Ford Mustang Mach-E--were put through their paces.

Read More →
Inside the Badge by Wayne ParhamJune 26, 2023

Officer Safety Considerations Related to Alternative-Fuel Vehicles

As more alternative-fuel and hybrid vehicles hit the road, police and other first responders need to understand that they are no more dangerous than conventional vehicles. However, there are certain safety considerations every cop should know.

Read More →
Inside the Badge by Wayne ParhamJune 9, 2023

Garmont Working to Grow LE Market Presence

Garmont Tactical has found wide acceptance by military boot buyers, but now the company is trying to better respond to the needs of police officers. Many cops now are not fans of 8-inch boots, so Garmont is adapting.

Read More →
Ad Loading...
Inside the Badge by StaffJune 7, 2023

Publisher’s Note: Our Commitment to You

Through our magazine and website and our Police Technology eXchange event, we promise to provide you with information and access to resources to help you do your job safer and better.

Read More →
Inside the Badge by Wayne ParhamJune 2, 2023

10 Tips for Responding to Mental Health Crisis Calls

The Harris County Sheriff's Office is a model for other agencies that want to learn about crisis intervention and mental health crisis response. Sgt. Jose Gomez shares the story of their programs and provides 10 tips for mental health crisis call response

Read More →
Inside the Badge by Wayne ParhamMay 22, 2023

5 Things to Know When Buying Concealed-Carry or Off-Duty Holsters

Mike Barham, of Galco Holsters, shares five important considerations to keep in mind when you buy off-duty concealed or plain-clothes carry holsters.

Read More →
Ad Loading...
10 Tips for Reviewing Use-of-Force Reports - Police Law Enforcement Solutions graphic
Inside the Badge by Wayne ParhamMay 10, 2023

10 Tips for Reviewing Use-of-Force Reports

While the burden of accurately reporting use-of-force situations is on an individual deputy or officer, the person reviewing those reports shares in the responsibility of making sure the reporting is done properly, with clear details included.

Read More →